Howdy, I’m Jaclynn.

I write about the wonderfully weird experience of being human.

As a licensed mental health counselor, I’m endlessly fascinated by the things we hide, the stories we tell ourselves, and the strange ways our brains try to keep us safe (even when they’re making a spectacular mess of things).

My writing starts on the inside of an experience. I like putting words to feelings that usually come out as, “Ugh… I don’t know, it’s just… this.” Through storytelling, humor, and psychological insight, I try to make messy emotional experiences feel a little more understandable, a little more practical, and a lot less lonely.

If you’re looking for a writer, a speaker, or someone who’s happy to spend an unreasonable amount of time wondering why humans do the things we do, I’m glad you found your way here.

Love,
Jaclynn


The Things I Notice

The Art of Showing Up

I have a philosophy that when you say yes to people, you’re in. Years ago, during a podcast episode with my dear friends Reid and Paul, we discussed our friendship. It’s an unusual thruple, as…

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The 10-Mile Rule

“Can I get naked?” I shrugged, shook my head, and said, “I don’t care.” I didn’t feel the choice was mine to make. It was Evelyn who would be running around in zip-car circles in…

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Turning One Into Many

I’m a propagator. If I have a plant, all bets are off that I’m not scheming how to divide that beast into two. My current focus is a geranium. I cut the tops off three…

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Easy Breezy Beautiful

My inner world is complicated. Whose isn’t, right? Within all its normal complexity, it also feels pulled apart like warm Silly Putty, which is a fun, twisty mix of chaos, cheese slices, and gripping the…

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Dreamin’ In Color

I’m diving into the deep end of the ways fantasy acts as a map for the shape we want reality to take. Why is it that when it comes to owning our fantasies—putting them up…

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