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Author Archives: Jaclynn Loibl
The Weight of Yes
I’m not a fan of me. In fact, if I could, I’d boo me. I wouldn’t vote for myself in a March Madness bracket, and if I saw myself walking down the street, I’d pull the old “honk and wave the other way” prank. I’m in one of those nothing-is-going-my-way, nothing-is-good-enough moods—the kind that feelsContinue reading “The Weight of Yes”
The Eagle Has Landed
We secured the packages from the airport—otherwise known as Grandpa and Grandma. They’re settling in nicely—I checked. Their suitcases and shoes are neatly stored on the newly purchased luggage racks. I’m all about providing a lovely guest room experience. However, I fully embrace a solid zero-star rating in the wall decor department. The walls areContinue reading “The Eagle Has Landed”
The Weight of the Underbelly
My clients are the ones doing the dirty work—the social workers, the detectives on sexual abuse cases. Their victims are the powerless, the vulnerable, the dependent. Together, we meet in the darkest recesses of humanity, working through the shock and sadness, reminding ourselves why we do this: to help the greater community. I like workingContinue reading “The Weight of the Underbelly”
Don’t Resist, Persist
Glocks, pistols, 9mm—just another casual topic of conversation among six moms at our homeschool co-op playground meetup. Before today, I had no idea they were so well-versed in pink designs, extra clips, and fun sizes. I sure as heck am not. But that’s what you get for joining a co-op minutes from an Air ForceContinue reading “Don’t Resist, Persist”
Lost in Procrastination
Hooking my Apple Watch to my wrist feels like slapping an ankle bracelet on my criminal self. But it’s a piece of technology that makes losing my other technology less likely. A built-in if-this-then-that sequence keeping my chaotic tendencies in check. Google Keep does the same. It’s my mind on paper when I’m on theContinue reading “Lost in Procrastination”
There’s No Place Like Home
When the construction site’s floodlights spilled into every window, I woke instantly. It’s amazing how quickly the senses flip on when the environment shifts. Even before the sound came, I felt my body retract, bracing. Not even three seconds later—boom. A cannon-blast thunderclap. Southern storms feel almost theatrical, like a movie production team is outsideContinue reading “There’s No Place Like Home”
Gone With the Wind
Severe weather is in the forecast—heavy winds, thunder, lightning, rain. Naturally, I have the National Weather Service radar pulled up because, after sifting through the conflicting chaos of social media and my weather app, I need the real source. A tornado watch is posted three hours west. Typical. The South doesn’t just have weather—it performsContinue reading “Gone With the Wind”
A Chef’s Kiss
For as developed as my culinary skills are, I’d recommend my Mexican fare if you ever pop over for dinner. Standing in the grocery line, I surveyed the cart ahead of me—dozens of canned goods, and several boxes of boil-in-a-bag rice. Then I glanced at my own: fresh cilantro, Salvadorian crema, limes, ingredients en routeContinue reading “A Chef’s Kiss”
Woman in the Mirror
Frequently, clients bring notes they’ve taken during the week about things to discuss in session. Lately, I’ve been taking mental notes of my own—not about something I need to do, but about something I need to undo. I’ve noticed the way I talk to myself in the mirror—the quiet critiques, the passing glances that becomeContinue reading “Woman in the Mirror”