Walking the Path of Pain

Suicidal thought discussions are increasingly prevalent in my practice. These thoughts are as alarming as they are routine, yet they hold immense significance in the landscape of mental health. Recently, one of my clients found themselves safely in a psychiatric ward, and as I drove home from work, I spoke to a concerned family memberContinue reading “Walking the Path of Pain”

Burdens, Bickers, and Bedtime Battles

Other people’s burdens found me today. Like plops of piles of garbage on my front porch, one after the other, they cluttered the sight of my scarecrow, pumpkin, and corn stalk fall decorations. And what did I do? First, I assessed what was mine to bear. What ownership or responsibility did I need or wantContinue reading “Burdens, Bickers, and Bedtime Battles”

A Farewell to Grandma

My least favorite question of all time, “So you gonna have another one?” slipped right out of my uncle’s mouth, right there in the church’s basement post-funeral. Internally, I cringed as I saw the hopeful anticipation in his and his wife’s eyes, waiting for my response. “Not happening,” I said, and I could practically seeContinue reading “A Farewell to Grandma”

Mastering Moments

“You’ll never get eaten by an alligator,” I reassured Evelyn as her fear of the toothy, snouted swimmer took hold of her imagination. It seemed I had managed to provide some comfort because she responded with a heartfelt, “Thank you, Mommy.” Our attention then shifted to the world of baseball, where the Mariners were dominatingContinue reading “Mastering Moments”

Couples Counseling: Part Duel

After a significant break in our communication journey, our couple from part one is now ready to embark on part two. “Do we want to pick up where we left off last time?” I inquire, curious about any updates. However, met with silence, one promotes me, “Where was that?” I gently remind them, “You feltContinue reading “Couples Counseling: Part Duel”

Lost Keys and Lofted Dreams

After countless hours of poring over house plans, Dave and I have finally found the one that captivates us. Its defining feature is the tall vaulted ceiling in the family room, with fans and rustic wooden beams. It gives the impression of a cozy cabin tucked away in the forest. However, there’s one aspect thatContinue reading “Lost Keys and Lofted Dreams”