I have a philosophy that when you say yes to people, you’re in.
Years ago, during a podcast episode with my dear friends Reid and Paul, we discussed our friendship. It’s an unusual thruple, as we’ve been told, but more importantly, from the get-go, it was the three of us who showed up.
And showed up. And showed up.
Currently, there’s a group I feel a similar desire to say yes to. Being my authentic and carefree self is easy with them. It’s why I encouraged my family to go on a Labor Day camping trip, and why, a month and a half early, I’m putting a Pride event on my calendar.
I want to be with them. I want to put myself in their space.
And the fact that they’re doing the same with me might mean we’re onto an ongoing friendship.
Speaking of, Dave and I watched The Invite last night. The $20 price tag is an unusual splurge for us, but since we’d missed the window for a night out together at the theater, we did the next best thing. I also think he and I share a value that prioritizing us matters. With a million to-dos, places to be, and hard and easy choices to make, saying yes to us is meaningful.
I’ve stolen a moment away to write. Everyone—my family and my in-laws—is across the field at my in-laws’ parents’ house. They’re making jam, and sloppy joes are simmering on the stove.
I made the less-than-one-minute drive home to take care of my final progress note, shape dough for bread, and knock out a few household odds and ends.
It’s a nice nightcap to the weekend: time with family, dinner, and board games.
I better get back to it.
Take care, and try saying yes if you’re so inclined.
Love,
Jaclynn
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