Escaping the Bully

I find it fascinating that I’m trapped in that peculiar vortex where writing for others seems intimidating. It’s akin to that schoolyard bully lurking behind the corner of the building, waiting to push you unexpectedly, just when you’ve let your guard down on the downward sway of the swing set. From feeling so comfortable andContinue reading “Escaping the Bully”

Disoriented Orientations

“Ring up that first,” said the man to the checkout clerk standing behind us in line, and I immediately sensed his intent. I had observed his genuine kindness and fondness toward Evelyn, who was sitting flat butted, carefully choosing glittery accessories from the “you know you want to buy this” area in the waiting lineContinue reading “Disoriented Orientations”

The Negotiator’s Playbook

In the realm of negotiations, I’ve developed a sense of confidence. Where I used to waver or hesitate, I now stand firm, prepared, and poised, and I owe it all to the wisdom found in the book “Never Split the Difference.” Today’s bargaining scenario unfolded on Facebook Marketplace, where a potential buyer showed interest inContinue reading “The Negotiator’s Playbook”

The Splendor of a Fender Bender

Dave excelled in the communication department earlier today, delivering a concise yet informative message: “Hi. I want you to know we’ve been rear-ended, and we’re ok.” Just like a steadfast air traffic controller, he relayed the crucial details: “undriveable,” “tow truck coming,” “pick us up.” So, I sprang into action. Heading up the hill, IContinue reading “The Splendor of a Fender Bender”

Sorting Out the Mental Maze

Do you ever find your body pulling you in one direction while your mind tugs you in another? I often wrestle with conflicting desires: one part of me wanted my phone when writing tonight, while the other insisted, “No distractions, just you and the blank page.” Even as I settled in, with one knee drawnContinue reading “Sorting Out the Mental Maze”

Hiking Nirvana: Naches Peak Loop Trail

With a hiker’s report on AllTrails mentioning slush on the trail, I felt both a deflating sensation, tempting me to stay at home and a rush of “now or never” pressure to embark on the climb up Chinook Pass before it closes for the season. So we went. “I can’t imagine driving all this wayContinue reading “Hiking Nirvana: Naches Peak Loop Trail”